In retrospect, I had many red pill moments as a young one, but none of them really had an effect on me. The first time that I really internalized a lesson was one night I had in my early 20s. I was just chilling in one of my local bars, reading a book and having a glass. This chick rolls in and sits next to me at the bar. She knows the bartender, as do I, and starts talking about some boring date she was just on. She starts complaining about how this guy felt like he was owed sex just cause he bought dinner.
I had no game at that point, but for some reason was playing it real laid back. She dug it and I ended up back at her place, smashin' it. I still had a long way to go, but that was the first time I really started to question the conventional dating wisdom.
I had no game at that point, but for some reason was playing it real laid back. She dug it and I ended up back at her place, smashin' it. I still had a long way to go, but that was the first time I really started to question the conventional dating wisdom.