Been doing no fap on and off over the last few years. I've posted before in this thread but after getting back on the train... (I'm somwhere around 10-13 days at the moment)
... I'm 100% convinced that having an orgasm more than about twice a month has negative effects on my quality of life, in all the areas that people talk about.
While not jerking off all the time I'm:
* More focused
* More content in general
* More aggressive about getting my goals(in a good way)
* Men & Women treat me differently after about 7+ days. (Napoleon Hill talks about this "magnetism" that having a high sex drive gives you)
* I'm more social with men and women
To the people who find it hard to not think about sex after the 2-3 week mark I'll tell you this..
(This has been true for myself) The harder you work at your goals and the more you structure and plan your day around those goals the less you'll think about sex.
In fact, I believe the reason you're stuck on sex is because you're not redirecting that energy into your goals.
Some of are you thinking "bullshit" or think you just have a higher sex drive than me but I'll tell you this....
I've done nofap before and found the same thing.... Around 2-3 weeks it becomes unbearable and you just give in....
But what is the one constant about all the times we give in to that urge?
...We aren't on our purpose (shoutout to AMS) or we aren't chasing our goals. Youre just hanging out by yourself doing nothing.
That used to be me
In the last year I've started a business and now have a full time employee and I've commited myself to big goals in all areas of my life and I'm finding that I'm so focused, and I'm putting so much energy into them that the days over before I've thought about jerking off.
Every time i jerk off it's usually because I didn't plan that time period for that day.
No fap gives me more energy to attack my goals and the success I'm seeing only reinforces not going back to jerking off 1-7 times a week.
... I'm 100% convinced that having an orgasm more than about twice a month has negative effects on my quality of life, in all the areas that people talk about.
While not jerking off all the time I'm:
* More focused
* More content in general
* More aggressive about getting my goals(in a good way)
* Men & Women treat me differently after about 7+ days. (Napoleon Hill talks about this "magnetism" that having a high sex drive gives you)
* I'm more social with men and women
To the people who find it hard to not think about sex after the 2-3 week mark I'll tell you this..
(This has been true for myself) The harder you work at your goals and the more you structure and plan your day around those goals the less you'll think about sex.
In fact, I believe the reason you're stuck on sex is because you're not redirecting that energy into your goals.
Some of are you thinking "bullshit" or think you just have a higher sex drive than me but I'll tell you this....
I've done nofap before and found the same thing.... Around 2-3 weeks it becomes unbearable and you just give in....
But what is the one constant about all the times we give in to that urge?
...We aren't on our purpose (shoutout to AMS) or we aren't chasing our goals. Youre just hanging out by yourself doing nothing.
That used to be me
In the last year I've started a business and now have a full time employee and I've commited myself to big goals in all areas of my life and I'm finding that I'm so focused, and I'm putting so much energy into them that the days over before I've thought about jerking off.
Every time i jerk off it's usually because I didn't plan that time period for that day.
No fap gives me more energy to attack my goals and the success I'm seeing only reinforces not going back to jerking off 1-7 times a week.