IMO, in American culture, you are expected to do something on weekends.
It's kind of late to ask a girl out for Fri/Sat on Wed. Because it shows you don't have a plan for weekends and by accepting it, they can also reveal that they have nothing going on weekends.
I am sure when a girl asks her what she is doing tomorrow on Fri, she wouldn't mind telling her 'nothing'. But I don't think she will give the same answer when a guy asks about it.
I am frustrated because I have to set the Appointment with them like a business meeting. In fact, you can see your doctor or lawyer by giving them 1 day notice. With girls? at least several days or even a week. But that's just the way it is.
I think you have to do it just like everyone else.
Eg: all guys inflate the number of their hookups. If you tell them the truth, you will look like an loser.
Although they all know everyone is not telling the truth, they all go with it.
It's kind of late to ask a girl out for Fri/Sat on Wed. Because it shows you don't have a plan for weekends and by accepting it, they can also reveal that they have nothing going on weekends.
I am sure when a girl asks her what she is doing tomorrow on Fri, she wouldn't mind telling her 'nothing'. But I don't think she will give the same answer when a guy asks about it.
I am frustrated because I have to set the Appointment with them like a business meeting. In fact, you can see your doctor or lawyer by giving them 1 day notice. With girls? at least several days or even a week. But that's just the way it is.
I think you have to do it just like everyone else.
Eg: all guys inflate the number of their hookups. If you tell them the truth, you will look like an loser.
Although they all know everyone is not telling the truth, they all go with it.