[Spartan]

(04-07-2012 01:09 PM)Greek kamaki Wrote:  

You really do a wrong type of approach.Just write what you tell and how they reply and I will tell you how to proceed.I am a bit dizzy at the moment(after this incident on Sunday) but I will try to write as good as I can.

OK, I get a phone number from a girl on Mamba.

Here is how I do it:
(I write it all in Russian)

Me
Hi, how are you?

Girl
Hello, normal, and you?)

Me
Good

Anything interesting going on with you?

Girl
Now, no, stay at home because of weather.and you?

Me
I was in a small town in Poland not so long ago. There was a castle high on a hill with beautiful views over the river and the city.

Do you like traveling? Where have already had occasion to visit?

Girl
I love, but few have been ...

Me
I want to go to Istanbul and China someday.
I think they have good food and the weather

Girl
I'll answer later, still a little busy.

Girl
I would like to go everywhere =) but now the dream-Germany, because I teach German, I know little of their culture and everything is very t.d. I'd like to personally verify this.

Me
interesting
What music do you like to listen?

Girl
No particular style, listen to what I like)

Me
I also like that. Sometimes pop, sometimes classic ...
Do you like to dance?

Girl
yes)

Me
We can meet in a cafe for tea and chat more, another day)
Good?

Girl
Yes, good)

Me
Give your phone number, I'll call you tomorrow

Girl
+8424828428

Me
Well, tomorrow I'll call.
Nice to talk to you)

Girl
Likewise)) you rarely seen a normal, adequate human on here =)

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Ok, so its just a normal chat. Very typical.

The phone number was real and she agreed to meet, but then cancelled. She was polite enough to let me know she couldn't come. I'll try again tomorrow.

I've had very similar conversations with girls who actually meet me.




DURING the DATE:
We order tea and desert (1 dollar for tea, 1.5 to 2 dollars desert). I tell them to pick what they want.
This is in an average cafe in the center of town. Most of the other customers are my age (early 20s).

We talk...I should be escalating physically, yes?
How do I do this? (where do I start...how to proceed)