Quote: (05-13-2013 06:17 PM)IntrovertSuccess Wrote:
I'm a big proponent of "it's a numbers game, but I stack the deck in my favour as much as I can."
Related to this, you guys may have seen those studies where women who are on the pill have their attraction mechanism messed up, when they come off it they suddenly find that they're no longer attracted to their BF's because his smell is somehow different.
This is why I'm also a big advocate of really tuning in to the type of girl that attracts you. Stop watching porn, mainstream TV and movies (also be moderately healthy so all your hormones are doing their job correctly). Go out and get a sense for your type, the kind that makes your balls ache. I've found much success when I approach those women that awaken an intense animal reaction in me.
It's a good idea though I think the porn I like reflects many of my natural preferences.
Not sure if your idea is meant to be more about enhancing your ability to pick up as distinct from your ability to enjoy what you end up with, but on the latter topic, while I'm not a "nofap" person (it never seems to matter for me either way) I worry about porn leading me to pass on women who would be a fantastic physical match if I gave them a chance rather than spending all of my time chasing after the hotter and less obtainable women.
A couple of years ago I had a woman who was sorta cute, but not enough for me to pursue, however she fell into my lap and I gave her a chance in bed. She turned out to be one of the best fucks I've ever had. Everything was right: voice, orgasmic capacity and endurance, ability to please in various ways, and she delivered week after week with one of the best personalities to boot. After banging her for a few weeks she started to look really good to me as well. regret not stepping back from "game" for a moment to seriously evaluate that one for marriage, and yet I wouldn't have given her a second glance in a room full of half-decent looking women. It proved to me that some of the physical characteristics that I assumed were essential to me aren't, and that some of the other things I mentioned are even more valuable, as long as the general outline of the girl is merely cute. A man who doesn't get off on a woman's voice and other invisible attributes would have a hard time understanding this without experiencing it.