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(02-17-2012 03:54 AM)Greek kamaki Wrote:  

1.Why are you in Ukraine?
This test implies:Are you in Ukraine to hunt girls?If you answer I came to get girls you are immediately disqualified.

Not really. First you're likely telling the truth so she won't think you're a liar. She'll likely ask an explanation (what does it mean? You came for a wife/gf? hookers?). I can imagine the situation where it may be a good answer. But if you're old and out of shape, this is probably not a good answer anyway.

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If you answer I am a professional searching for business opportunities,interested in buying real estate,trying to open a shop or franchise etc you are in to be considered a liar.

Not really, but you'll definitely be further tested to make sure you're congruent. A chick thinks you may be lying, but she'll give you some benefit of the doubt. Of course if you're saying you're professional searching for business, but you are staying in a hostel, leaving in a week and cannot explain what kind of business you're looking for, you better say you're coming for girls.

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2.How long will you stay in Ukraine?
If you answer I came for a week she may decide you are not material for LTR.

Which also may be good. If this question popped up after we've been talking for a while and she already perceives me as a high value person, I'd rather say I'm leaving tomorrow, forcing her to choose between spending a night with me with the possibility to see me in a future, or call it quit right away which saves time.

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3.Are girls not beautiful in your country?Why do you want ukrainian girl?

What do you say to get this question? I have never got one in my whole life.

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4.Why do you not have a girlfriend?Why are you not married? This means what is your story?Are you not eligible to get a wife in your country or are you irresponsible?

This usually means "are you married, and aren't you lying that you are not?" and she's watching your behavior while you answer.

Now let me do some critique

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1.Why are you in Ukraine?
I love Ukraine.It is a spceial country.I have been in Poland,Czech Republic,Hungary,Slovakia,Denmark,Sweden,Germany,Italy,Austria and Ukraine is my favourite destination.

This is a good answer. The bold part is critical for its success; Ukraine is just one of the countries you've visited. Just a simple "I like to travel" works well as long as you've been to other countries you mention (she may test you). Keep it short and let her dig the information about other countries from you.

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2.How long will you stay in Ukraine?
Unfortunately I get a very short vaccation because my job is very demanding.This time I will stay for a week but I will come back soon.Last year I was in Ukraine 5 times in March,May,August etc.

Not sure what you're trying to achieve. From this answer it is obvious that no LTR is possible, and you're not even looking for one. So why mention that you've been here before and you leave soon? I'd say something like "My flight back is in a week, but I'll probably leave tomorrow because I absolutely hate this place". Smile when you say it. When she asks why make up something about not being able to find a place where they make a good coffee or something like that.

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3.Are girls not beautiful in your country?
Girls are exceptionally beautiful in my country.

I'd stop right here. You answered her question, and you're here because you love the country and the culture, not because you're not getting something where you're from. Also nobody likes to hear complains, nor she really care.

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3.Why do you want ukrainian girl?
Ukrainian girls are so nice and beautiful.I can never stiop coming here.

Would you really care whether she's Ukrainian or not as long as she's nice and beautiful? You likely won't, and she knows that. I usually say I'm an easy-going person, I like meeting new people and I do not care whether she's Ukrainian or not as long as she's good person.

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4.Why are you not married?
Unfortunately I was not able to find the right person.

I'd stop right here as well. No need to elaborate, and if you complain about something she doesn't know, she'll have to give them the benefit of the doubt (because your representation of the situation is obviously one-sided), and will dig it further, maybe starting even arguing with you (it is obvious that not the WHOLE USA is fat)