"This isn't a rhetorical question or a veiled criticism. I'm an LTR personality, and if I were the OP I'd have much rather have spent the [three (?) hours + functional recovery time (post-alcohol)] at home editing a movie than hanging around in a bar-- but I'd like to have a charming chick like you describe home with me!
From his writing style, I'm guessing the poster doesn't want an LTR, but let's say he did -- his game obviously got him to the point that she had some interest."
You've hit on something - I actually enjoyed talking to this chick, she wasn't just a target for sex. I would have enjoyed hanging out with her again. Beta? Maybe, but I like having friends as well as having sex. That combined with the fact that she had given me her number (which suggested she wanted to hear from me) relaxed me a bit, made me think I could count on a Day 2. That was stupid, I should have remembered Roosh's post about how flaking has gone epidemic - gotta go as far as you can the first time you meet her.
But then again, maybe giving me the number was some kind of pre-emptive flattering of her anti-slut defense, something that made it OK to go home with me since she'd gone through the "we should meet up again" motions.
What's awesome about the night, and makes the fail so frustrating, is the first two thirds of the night my game was off the charts. I wasn't thinking about it, it was unconscious. It wasn't even game, it was just me being a ridiculously attractive guy and acting like I knew it too.
"No disrespect here, but does anyone think her giving you a dollar smacks of some condescension? Maybe she saw you didn't tip?"
I actually asked her for the dollar as a compliance test, I had gotten about four waters from the bar and hadn't tipped because I had no singles.
"TO me the "are you really going to call" sounds plaintive, like she's an LTR chick. "
Or someone who has been pumped and dumped and wants some token reassurance I'm not that kind of guy.
"Also, she said CALL and you TEXTED? Isn't that against the "higher emotion" rule of communication?"
I never call girls anymore, even when they tell me to call half the time they don't return the call. However, almost every girl responds to the text.
From his writing style, I'm guessing the poster doesn't want an LTR, but let's say he did -- his game obviously got him to the point that she had some interest."
You've hit on something - I actually enjoyed talking to this chick, she wasn't just a target for sex. I would have enjoyed hanging out with her again. Beta? Maybe, but I like having friends as well as having sex. That combined with the fact that she had given me her number (which suggested she wanted to hear from me) relaxed me a bit, made me think I could count on a Day 2. That was stupid, I should have remembered Roosh's post about how flaking has gone epidemic - gotta go as far as you can the first time you meet her.
But then again, maybe giving me the number was some kind of pre-emptive flattering of her anti-slut defense, something that made it OK to go home with me since she'd gone through the "we should meet up again" motions.
What's awesome about the night, and makes the fail so frustrating, is the first two thirds of the night my game was off the charts. I wasn't thinking about it, it was unconscious. It wasn't even game, it was just me being a ridiculously attractive guy and acting like I knew it too.
"No disrespect here, but does anyone think her giving you a dollar smacks of some condescension? Maybe she saw you didn't tip?"
I actually asked her for the dollar as a compliance test, I had gotten about four waters from the bar and hadn't tipped because I had no singles.
"TO me the "are you really going to call" sounds plaintive, like she's an LTR chick. "
Or someone who has been pumped and dumped and wants some token reassurance I'm not that kind of guy.
"Also, she said CALL and you TEXTED? Isn't that against the "higher emotion" rule of communication?"
I never call girls anymore, even when they tell me to call half the time they don't return the call. However, almost every girl responds to the text.