Quote: (02-04-2012 05:02 PM)RichieP Wrote:
looks and height and money... hehehWithout kicking off the age-old game forum flamewar, check out Tyler from RSDs latest in-field vids for some pretty convincing counterexamples. Not saying they dont make a difference, but I personally have seen too many guys make it not matter.
I'd say
1) Masculinity/Dominance/Escalation/Leading
2) Abundance/Non-neediness
3) Sexuality
4) Playfulness/Wittiness/Flirting ability
5) Social Fluidity (dealing with friends, tricky logistics, being subtle, etc)
(no one word describes each trait properly. so I've put several which "point" to the thing I'm getting at in each case)
This is a good contribution, but some are really really hard to define in any kind of objective way at all.
For instance "abundance" is a popular buzzword that offer zero observable physical correlates-- Now something like "not leaning in " ('Pecking' per Mystery) can be observed.