I agree with nearly everything that jariel wrote, but think that there isn't that much disagreement between posters on this thread. The OP is talking about soft flakes, in other words, girls that flaked with genuine reasons. As he says, those girls will almost immediately rearrange with you.
Assuming this is the case then the correct response to her 'sorry I can't make it blah blah blah' text is to ignore it for a bit to get her hamster spinning, then respond laconically and suggest that she put forward a few dates when she can make it and you will try to arrange to see her. If she doesn't comply then next her. If she wriggles and starts putting conditionals then prepare yourself to next her very soon.
However, what your shouldn't be doing is becoming the beta orbiter that is trying to ingratiate yourself with a girl who flaked on you. It's not a shit test, it's usually because she's just being a cunt who gets an ego rush out of doing it, and an anecdote to laugh about with her friends on the weekend.
Again, ask yourselves this: how many girls have you actually laid after they flaked on you and didn't rearrange almost immediately?
Assuming this is the case then the correct response to her 'sorry I can't make it blah blah blah' text is to ignore it for a bit to get her hamster spinning, then respond laconically and suggest that she put forward a few dates when she can make it and you will try to arrange to see her. If she doesn't comply then next her. If she wriggles and starts putting conditionals then prepare yourself to next her very soon.
However, what your shouldn't be doing is becoming the beta orbiter that is trying to ingratiate yourself with a girl who flaked on you. It's not a shit test, it's usually because she's just being a cunt who gets an ego rush out of doing it, and an anecdote to laugh about with her friends on the weekend.
Again, ask yourselves this: how many girls have you actually laid after they flaked on you and didn't rearrange almost immediately?