Thanks to everyone who responded to my last GD post. I've learned a lot from it already.
I have another experience that I want to share, both to help me improve and because it's sort of funny. This actually started my journey to the red pill.
I met a girl on the bus. Started talking to her. She was funny, seemed nice and appeared to be a 7.5 in the poor light. I got her number and asked her out by text. She agreed, and I was happy! Maybe this would be the end of my dry spell.
Anyway, I set up a date, and even tell my friend I can't see a movie with him at that time because of the date. I text her an hour before to ask if it's still on.
No response for 30 minutes.
I'm not going to go unless I get an ok, so I call her. Her phone barely works, and I can't talk more than 30 seconds. She texts saying she'll be late. 45 minutes later she says she's still shopping.
45 minutes later she texts again saying she's sorry but can't make it.
This is where I go into beta mode.
I ask her out again. She accepts. We meet at the park. I offer to take her to a cafe, but she refuses. We walk around and talk for an hour. I wasn't too chatty, probably because I was mad that she canceled on me before. She drops her phone and asks me to walk around like an idiot trying to find it with her, I oblige.
We did have some interests, and when our "date" ended I took her back to her place. She didn't invite me inside, but her parents did. I spoke to them for a little while and she ignored me mostly.
She had told me that the parents were going out and it would only be her in the house. After taking the red pill, I would have asked to come in and bone her. But my parents advice to always be a gentleman was ringing in my head and I didn't think it was chivalrous to try and bang her on date one (yes, I've kicked myself for that many times).
Honestly if they had told me to just stick my dick in a fucking blender my chances with women would have improved.
I also saw her in good light - she was pasty, freckled, frizzy hair and actually closer to 6 in good light.
I leave and head home. She texts saying something like "My mom said I was rude to u"
I replied back "Your mom was right"
This instantly got her going - she started showing a lot more interest and sent a few texts. I didn't respond because I was driving. Her last one was along the lines of "Well I'm sorry it didn't go so well I guess I'll leave you alone now"
I foolishly texted back "I had a good time, if you want to see me again tell me within a week" (I know in retrospect how dumb that is).
So gamers, you think you could pick apart some of the things I did wrong and how I could have done them better?
I have another experience that I want to share, both to help me improve and because it's sort of funny. This actually started my journey to the red pill.
I met a girl on the bus. Started talking to her. She was funny, seemed nice and appeared to be a 7.5 in the poor light. I got her number and asked her out by text. She agreed, and I was happy! Maybe this would be the end of my dry spell.
Anyway, I set up a date, and even tell my friend I can't see a movie with him at that time because of the date. I text her an hour before to ask if it's still on.
No response for 30 minutes.
I'm not going to go unless I get an ok, so I call her. Her phone barely works, and I can't talk more than 30 seconds. She texts saying she'll be late. 45 minutes later she says she's still shopping.
45 minutes later she texts again saying she's sorry but can't make it.
This is where I go into beta mode.
I ask her out again. She accepts. We meet at the park. I offer to take her to a cafe, but she refuses. We walk around and talk for an hour. I wasn't too chatty, probably because I was mad that she canceled on me before. She drops her phone and asks me to walk around like an idiot trying to find it with her, I oblige.
We did have some interests, and when our "date" ended I took her back to her place. She didn't invite me inside, but her parents did. I spoke to them for a little while and she ignored me mostly.
She had told me that the parents were going out and it would only be her in the house. After taking the red pill, I would have asked to come in and bone her. But my parents advice to always be a gentleman was ringing in my head and I didn't think it was chivalrous to try and bang her on date one (yes, I've kicked myself for that many times).
Honestly if they had told me to just stick my dick in a fucking blender my chances with women would have improved.
I also saw her in good light - she was pasty, freckled, frizzy hair and actually closer to 6 in good light.
I leave and head home. She texts saying something like "My mom said I was rude to u"
I replied back "Your mom was right"
This instantly got her going - she started showing a lot more interest and sent a few texts. I didn't respond because I was driving. Her last one was along the lines of "Well I'm sorry it didn't go so well I guess I'll leave you alone now"
I foolishly texted back "I had a good time, if you want to see me again tell me within a week" (I know in retrospect how dumb that is).
So gamers, you think you could pick apart some of the things I did wrong and how I could have done them better?