Quote: (02-22-2015 08:17 AM)puckerman Wrote:
Quote: (02-21-2015 10:57 PM)Col. Tigh Wrote:
To start the process, I started off with an innocuous direct message, including a request to meet during the day and catch up on old times.
What do you mean by "innocuous direct message"? Can you provide an example please?
Sure. I began with:
Quote:Col. Tigh Wrote:
Hey, long time no see. Been in touch with anyone from our class lately? I went to the 10th reunion but people are scattered around now. Also, what's that new job like?
She replied with something about who she still keeps up with, and talks about her job a bit. This is basically Roosh's elderly chat method.
I go for my real intention, a meet up, in my second message:
Quote:Col. Tigh Wrote:
Good to hear. Got time to catch a lunch or coffee on Tuesday?
At that point, she replied with two more lengthy paragraphs, but she also said:
Quote:Old High School Acquaintance Girl Wrote:
Sure, coffee or tea would be great.
Then I either meet her for the mid-day non-date, or reply again suggesting drinks after work instead. If I go for the mid-day "date," then at some point I suggest the drink date if things are clicking with her at that time.