[TravelerKai]

(02-12-2015 05:41 PM)Swordfish Wrote:  

(02-12-2015 04:57 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  


The real practical question that I don't think you're asking is how to to handle her if she brings up the boyfriend/the vacation while you're on your date.

WIA

I asked that but nobody has offered a sample answer

my dread scenario - she brings up boyfriend/vacation in my apartment and i am stumped

i need a genius answer that completely short-circuits this objection

How about

'Your boyfriend is probably doing what my girlfriend is doing. When we are in different countries, it's don't ask don't tell'

PS. I don;t have a girlfriend

Nah don't do that..

You may not want to run my style of game either but basically, anytime a girl brings up her man, my response is usually, "oh that's nice." then change the subject immediately. If they tell me stuff like, "I just told you I already have a bf." I usually tell them, "but you talking to me right now. Not him. I'm sure he's a nice guy, but I'm not him." or "you are talking to me for a reason. Let's stick to that."

My stronger replies even go as far as saying, "fuck him!" "I'm not worried about him if you aren't." "where is he at right now?" listen to her answer "and you believe that shit? Come on let's get outta here."

You gotta have a certain frame, vibe, or swag to pull off that strong asshole reply stuff, I don't recommend that.