[OregonToSoCal]

@BlurredSevens, based on your posts in this and the I just had sex thread do you recommend directly inviting over EVERY Tinder match you get or is there a screening process you use for determining which ones are down to come directly over? I will admit my main fear/concern is by inviting everyone over I may scare the cat and they bail due to ASD whereas I could have easily bagged them by using Tuth's first date bang recipe. On the other hand, I know I've lost some who were DTF by literally talking them out of banging me. I have an extensive alcohol collection and joke about being a wannabe mixologist which I use as bait on my first dates. I would love to save the $20-30 in drinks at a bar and start directly at my place.