Not dread game.
Better for your ego to bang her on your terms. I don't mean this to be a dig or an insult. Preserving your sense of self/standards is very important and has ripple effects that make you more effective. Getting what you want on your terms is better than merely getting what you want.
In absolute terms, better to bang her quickly. Once she's given up sex, you've gotten everything that's valuable in a short term and the ball is in your court as to whether you stay in contact with her. Will you call her or not? Or did you just use her? Her self esteem, self confidence, and self worth are often impacted on what the man she's does after she's been at her most vulnerable.
By controlling your giving her attention, by making yourself a challenge, by challenging her, the idea is that the psychological component of attraction is achieved. Reasonable minds differ on whether that mental part is greater than the effect your visual appearance has on her.
WIA
Better for your ego to bang her on your terms. I don't mean this to be a dig or an insult. Preserving your sense of self/standards is very important and has ripple effects that make you more effective. Getting what you want on your terms is better than merely getting what you want.
In absolute terms, better to bang her quickly. Once she's given up sex, you've gotten everything that's valuable in a short term and the ball is in your court as to whether you stay in contact with her. Will you call her or not? Or did you just use her? Her self esteem, self confidence, and self worth are often impacted on what the man she's does after she's been at her most vulnerable.
By controlling your giving her attention, by making yourself a challenge, by challenging her, the idea is that the psychological component of attraction is achieved. Reasonable minds differ on whether that mental part is greater than the effect your visual appearance has on her.
WIA