Quote: (09-07-2011 10:16 AM)kimleebj Wrote:
Quote: (09-07-2011 12:06 AM)peterthephoenix Wrote:
I'm looking for a girl to send me a dirty text, a raunchy picture, to take me on a surprise date, to write me a letter that pours her heart out, to buy lingerie and show it off in front of me in a striptease.
This upsets me (coming out of my own relationship). Tell her what you want. Buy her the lingerie. Take some raunchy pictures of her. Be an alpha - tell her what you want and take it. She will like it.
+1. Start trying freaky shit with her. Choke her during sex. Shove her against a wall. Randomly accost her and start tonguing her down. Try all variety of things, and see what she responds to. Maybe she can be 'unlocked,' and maybe she's just frigid.
Start saying things to her during sex. Actually, we need a thread on this. I know for a fact that if you're good at it, talking about sex in an articulate way (a la romance novels) is incredibly effective, even on girls who'd think they hate it. I wouldn't start doing it until you're making out and groping. Roissy has a post or two on this. And you can bet *no guy* has ever done that with her.
One time I had a real freak in bed, who got incredibly wet from me making up some POV fantasy. Got the lay, and she said she hadn't been *planning* on banging me that night - was a first date after I met her out one night and made out.