I am in need of some advice. I have been trying to avoid my friend's girlfriend for over a year now. However this weekend she had a birthday party and I didn't turn up or send her any message.
I would prefer to be up front to my friend for the reasons why, but this girl is an expert sociopath and from past experience, I feel that it would make matters a lot more worse. Knowing that he has an incredible amount of influence on him as well as a friendship circle that I do want to stay in touch with.
In regards to what this girl x has done.
- She has multiple boyfriends including him as well as orbitors who take "orbiting" to the whole next level.
- Used to live with her and my friend along with a group of girls.
She would pretty much have sex with him when I was in the room, to try and make me jealous. Also the situation tense between me and my friend, because he didn't tell me that they were "seeing each other".
- Tried to place black magic on me, through gifts via my friend. Told me how she had the ability to harm people who scorned her.
- Made life difficult for people that she didn't like, slept with her ex boyfriends brother, while they were still together etc.
- Tried to come on to me at least two times, when she was supposedly together with my friend. Grabbing my crotch, rubbing up and down against me while getting me to grab her tits. This was as soon as he left the room.
I had to put up with this for a year, but I was the one put in the bad light because she would be nice to me when everyone was around. Plus by the sounds of it people thought I had a big crush on her. Eventually this event turned me to the red pill and all matters improved. However she is still trying to wheel her influence over me.
As much as I would love to my friend all of this, he has been presented with evidence enough times, he knows what she is like. So I decided to stay away and avoid her at all costs. Now however I have been again made out to be the bad guy because I wouldn't contact her.
Question is how should I approach this. I am dealing with a sociopath here, at the same time I don't want to lose connection with my friend, although it looks like that is happening now because my aloofness to his love of his life. At the same time, I don't want to be fake and have a connection with her at all.
The reason why I post this on here, is because this event truly shaped my red pill belief system well and truly. Also this is about dealing with female sociopaths and friendships, best way to deal with both topics. Any advice or suggestion, previous experience, I would truly appreciate.
TLDR;
Crazy sociopathic friend's girlfriend who I used to be close with. Is still trying to exercise influence from me. Should I cut off distance completely even with my friend or find a way to let him know. Or just play it cool and hold off for a while.
I would prefer to be up front to my friend for the reasons why, but this girl is an expert sociopath and from past experience, I feel that it would make matters a lot more worse. Knowing that he has an incredible amount of influence on him as well as a friendship circle that I do want to stay in touch with.
In regards to what this girl x has done.
- She has multiple boyfriends including him as well as orbitors who take "orbiting" to the whole next level.
- Used to live with her and my friend along with a group of girls.
She would pretty much have sex with him when I was in the room, to try and make me jealous. Also the situation tense between me and my friend, because he didn't tell me that they were "seeing each other".
- Tried to place black magic on me, through gifts via my friend. Told me how she had the ability to harm people who scorned her.
- Made life difficult for people that she didn't like, slept with her ex boyfriends brother, while they were still together etc.
- Tried to come on to me at least two times, when she was supposedly together with my friend. Grabbing my crotch, rubbing up and down against me while getting me to grab her tits. This was as soon as he left the room.
I had to put up with this for a year, but I was the one put in the bad light because she would be nice to me when everyone was around. Plus by the sounds of it people thought I had a big crush on her. Eventually this event turned me to the red pill and all matters improved. However she is still trying to wheel her influence over me.
As much as I would love to my friend all of this, he has been presented with evidence enough times, he knows what she is like. So I decided to stay away and avoid her at all costs. Now however I have been again made out to be the bad guy because I wouldn't contact her.
Question is how should I approach this. I am dealing with a sociopath here, at the same time I don't want to lose connection with my friend, although it looks like that is happening now because my aloofness to his love of his life. At the same time, I don't want to be fake and have a connection with her at all.
The reason why I post this on here, is because this event truly shaped my red pill belief system well and truly. Also this is about dealing with female sociopaths and friendships, best way to deal with both topics. Any advice or suggestion, previous experience, I would truly appreciate.
TLDR;
Crazy sociopathic friend's girlfriend who I used to be close with. Is still trying to exercise influence from me. Should I cut off distance completely even with my friend or find a way to let him know. Or just play it cool and hold off for a while.