Quote: (10-19-2014 05:24 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:
What an arms race:
A smile means nothing.
A conversation means nothing.
A number means nothing.
A date means nothing.
A makeout means nothing.
Also coming soon:
A declaration of undying love means nothing.
A marriage ceremony means nothing.
A bang means nothing.
Nothing means anything.
New post today in the Newbie section - We have achieved the Singularity!
Quote: (10-19-2014 04:59 PM)reco2100 Wrote:
Gents I have a question. I have been upping my game and it is getting better. I am getting more bangs. And the quality is getting better 5-7 mostly 5 and 6s though. After two years of struggle and slowly working through the red pill my success is getting more real to me.
I am older 52 and in good shape and I am able to pull some fairly young women. Not consistently and not all the time but it is happening. Last two weeks were really good. Kind of a plateau. But there is an issue that I have a question.
I am noticing that I am able to many times get the bang on the first date by doing the things talked about on here for overcoming LMR. But then I am not getting the 2nd bang. The pattern is. Go on the date. I build lots of comfort, conversation, laughing, touching, the shit tests have been minor. I will admit that my nature is good hear-ted and not such a dark triad, but I temper that with being sexually aggressive, talking about sex and lots of touching and very direct deep eye contact.
I can see the chick getting into me. Escalate, qualifying, bounce to second location, start the kissing and the chick getting more excited, i work through LMR. Get bang. Finish date, with some talking and a little cuddling. Then take them to their car or home. We talk about meeting the following week. At this point they seem really into me. Actually making specific plans on when and where to meet. I do the followup text after they get home telling them I had a good time. Nothing too clingy or needy. They will enthusiastically respond.
May even text with them the next day. Then after that, radio silence. I am not sure what is up. I have told myself some chicks are just going to not work out and chalk it up to numbers.
Any ideas? Or am I just over thinking this?
It's official, the culture is now so slutty, even the Bang means nothing. No "Honeymoon" period anymore , you're immediately competing with every dick on Tinder the next day.