[Days of Broken Arrows]

(09-08-2014 02:00 PM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  

(09-08-2014 12:02 PM)Aenema Wrote:  

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Guys might sleep with a girl because of her incredible tits or ass, but girls don't isolate body parts like that.

In my experience - and actually even based on admission by female writers and bloggers - it is clear that women want to "sample" experiences. It is physical, but of course with a twist of female porn - meaning it is an experience also in their hamster-brains (their porn is written vs. our visual one).

Known memes of doing that "one thing they want to experience":

- fuck a black guy
- fuck a guy with a big penis
- fuck a foreigner (where foreigners are rare - i.e. Japan)
- fuck a bad-boy
- fuck a tattooed guy
- fuck a biker
- fuck a criminal
- fuck a musician
- fuck a famous guy
- fuck a very muscular - massive guy

Those are things that even Jezebel-writers speak of - "every girl should have fun in her 20s" - blabla.

And if one of those guys or more happen to be ugly - who cares? He is a tattooed biker ex-con - Yeah - 3 flags in one!

"And if one of those guys or more happen to be ugly - who cares? He is a tattooed biker ex-con - Yeah - 3 flags in one!"

Which brings up an important point. If you're a guy who is lacking in one area, you can make up for it by taking on a "persona."

For example, if you're facially-challenged, you can grow a beard, wear a headband, and become a biker. Then you're not the ugly dude, you're "biker guy." Who cares if you're bike only has 2K miles on it? It's the image that matters.

My own example (which I've written about here) is that by keeping my hair long, people see me as "hippie guy" before they notice I'm short. I discovered this in college when I first grew my hair.

Guys who are outliers need to capitalize on this concept. Such guys can't compete on the same playing field as the guys I call "the white-shirt crew" -- those are the cookie-cutter men I see at lunch hour who all seem to be the same average height and build and wear the same white shirts to work every day.

But you can devise something completely different to sidestep whatever inadequacies you have. Think of it as the male version of the women who create weird "looks" because they're facially-challenged -- except in the man's case, this method can actually work.