Because the guys that go there, go there with a 'takers' mentality and feeling of lack. They are basically there because they don't have enough sex or women in their life (often none) and they need more.
This is a fear based way of being on a night out.
Being a woman in that environment (especially an attractive one) is a task as most guys you meet will not have a positive vibe about them due to the fear based nature of them being there. The guys they meet either won't genuinely having a good time or they will just pretending to be having a good time.
Think those guys you see at every club with a serious expression on their face, beer held to their chest and eyes scanning the room.
First of all it means you can't go to one alone - too dangerous. You need female friends with you. Guys can go alone.
Second it's time consuming to get ready. Guys can pretty much throw on a dress shirt, pants and pair of shoes.
There are many other reasons.
This is a fear based way of being on a night out.
Being a woman in that environment (especially an attractive one) is a task as most guys you meet will not have a positive vibe about them due to the fear based nature of them being there. The guys they meet either won't genuinely having a good time or they will just pretending to be having a good time.
Think those guys you see at every club with a serious expression on their face, beer held to their chest and eyes scanning the room.
First of all it means you can't go to one alone - too dangerous. You need female friends with you. Guys can go alone.
Second it's time consuming to get ready. Guys can pretty much throw on a dress shirt, pants and pair of shoes.
There are many other reasons.