The church has everything bass ackwards these days. Sex is going to happen period. Try to stop sex is like trying to stop the rain. Baiting people into marriage for "legal" sex opens up even more problems and complications. What marriage is at its root is a unit based on commitment, teamwork and cooperation. If there is none of these the marriage is doomed.
When I get a higher post count I want to write a post debunking virginity. The pedastalization of virginity has caused mountains of grief for many people. If people would discreetly have sex with someone they like, with a healthy marriage in view to.a wholesome candidate rather than trying to live reality tv, the world would be a more productive place.
When I get a higher post count I want to write a post debunking virginity. The pedastalization of virginity has caused mountains of grief for many people. If people would discreetly have sex with someone they like, with a healthy marriage in view to.a wholesome candidate rather than trying to live reality tv, the world would be a more productive place.