Quote: (07-09-2014 09:47 PM)norebly Wrote:
I hate to admit it but I don't have a personality that people are drawn to.
^^^ I honed in on this ma man. It's a problem.
Why? You're rejecting yourself even before trying.
People that reject you don't know you AT ALL. YOU DO!
After being rejected by girls (which happens to me immensely) I think about how I rejected myself not how she rejected me. Because her rejection doesn't matter. I'm using my conscious mind to do that. It just needs work.
You're living in your head. Check out the approach anxiety threads on the forum. They will help.
And I see a theme of "lack of follow through" in the tone of your posts. For example, I see a lot of you're "doing" and "looking into." I would say that you should do something from start to finish and then move on to something else and do the same.
Get that feeling of accomplishment into your system.
Good luck and we're all looking forward to hearing more.