[tarquin]

Did you read the horrible advice given out at the Washington Post?
Source: http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/...story.html

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Maybe he’s just young and stupid and will eventually figure out that your life mileage is not about him, but how many cheap shots are you prepared to take from him — in the bedroom, at your most vulnerable — while you wait for him to grow up?

Young and Stupid? Cheap shots?

No, he got a dose of reality about who he is really dating and his lot in life if he doesn't change. He is focusing his frustration on her, fairly or not.

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Until you meet someone you feel lucky to know and who feels lucky to know you, as-is, you’re not there yet.

So how do you find somebody who knows you as you are?

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You can’t prevent someone from having mental images of you with someone else, but you can certainly prevent them from being accurately detailed — and you can hold out for someone mature enough not to be haunted or threatened by the fact that you’ve had a life.

You lie about your past to him!