[Jukes]

Keyword is self. If it does not benefit them, then it is stupid or dangerous. An anecdote is I got in an argument with my Grandma about my running. It is an achievement to me since I have not use an asthma pump since 7th grade. Instead of recieving praise, I get critize. Got to the point she threaten to slap me (not the 1st time) and I say go ahead. Resulting in me looking bad. Now where was all this concern when I was younger doing multiple errands in the blistering heat because I can get it done quicker even though she had a car?