[HungWeiLo]

(05-25-2014 04:10 AM)XXL Wrote:  

It's all about managing expectations. If both of them really knew you date around beforehand then it's fine. She knew what to expect from you.

If someone starts asking you can always say that you want to find a GF but you're not willing to take any girl who's down so you're checking what's on the market to pick the one you share the most chemistry with. I call it "the making of.. my GF"

Agree with the managing expectations concept. Setting the stage that you're not looking for a relationship is important to keep you out of the LTR category in her mind. More importantly, and I've seen it not work well when done wrong, is managing the her after the bang if she's in your extended social circle. Meeting up a couple of times (sex or not) goes a long way to managing your continued access to the extended circle you want.

All it takes is the girl you banged to tell your friend (who's supposedly "cool" with you sleeping with her friends) you're an asshole, or a douche, or a player and have it strike a chord like only chicks can do with each other and your sextended social circle will close faster than white knights chances with a 1.