In colombia the girls who are on the coast for vacation either have a boyfriend or a sponsor. So they aren't going to give you the time of day. As for the ones with a bit of money their social circle will be next to impossible to crack. It can be done, just try to befriend an dudes in the group to introduce you. Say it's your birthday or you are celebrating something and invite any member of the group for a shot. Again, as mentioned before, speaking Spanish will help!
SEA have never been. However from the dudes I met, many have wives 20-30 years their junior. Now this was a different category if dudes, but it goes to show that if these average blokes can marry pretty girls with such an age gap well, imagine if you are in your prime, you will meet many more girls in SEA than in a colombia.
As for nightlife Colombian bars, much of the floor space is occupied by tables. It's not like in n.america where you have a few VIP booths on the side etc., and the majority of the floor space is standing which allows you to mingle and approach. I haven't been to any bars in SEA but check out any youtube videos or pics to see if night game will allow you to mingle and meet more women.
SEA have never been. However from the dudes I met, many have wives 20-30 years their junior. Now this was a different category if dudes, but it goes to show that if these average blokes can marry pretty girls with such an age gap well, imagine if you are in your prime, you will meet many more girls in SEA than in a colombia.
As for nightlife Colombian bars, much of the floor space is occupied by tables. It's not like in n.america where you have a few VIP booths on the side etc., and the majority of the floor space is standing which allows you to mingle and approach. I haven't been to any bars in SEA but check out any youtube videos or pics to see if night game will allow you to mingle and meet more women.