[TheChef]

(04-24-2014 05:49 PM)MtnMan Wrote:  

So far I have:
-greatly improved my style
-been lifting like a fool, and starting to go from tall and lankey to tall and fit. Gained maybe 5lbs of muscle so far, maybe a bit more.
-gotten a few dates
-gotten the balls to kiss close the last 3 dates with success
-gotten a couple second dates with heavy makeout/dry humping
-talked to more chicks in my every day life

Thanks gents.

MtnMan, these are all good things to improve on. But what seems more pertinent is:

- How are you bringing in new girls? Do you have a process?
and
- How many nights a week do you go out to game?

For the first part, you need to find a niche that consistently brings in new girls. It could be a networking or happy hour group. It could be going to a dance class that brings in a lot of cuties. Find out what works for you.

The second, and most important, part is if you are going out to game new girls at least 3 times a week. This is at least a few hours at a bar of your choice with the goal of having a few drinks and talking to a bunch of girls. You'll get more numbers, which means more dates, which means more lays.

Also it sounds like your logistics are a bit tricky because you're far away. That's ok, just BE PATIENT. Take the girl for a drink on the first date, and talk about an amazing dinner you can cook for her on the second, at your place. If she won't come over on the second date, it probably won't happen.

Lastly, what Mcqueen said is onpoint. Game 6s-8s, start having regular sex with girls and guess what? Your confidence grows, your charm develops, you get better at sex and eventually you'll eventually feel the need to game girls at the next level.

It's like lifting weights, before you can bench 200 lbs, you need to incrementally go up 5-10lbs at a time over a period of months. You can't skip these small bits of growth.

From personal experience, this is the trajectory of a player: You start gaming girls that cute or ok, but definitely doable. You get good at all the mechanics of closing on a first date, and keeping her excited to see you and sleep with you regularly. Then you focus on better looking girls and continue the process, while honing your skills even more along the way.

The ending is a harem of 9s or a 10 is your girlfriend. It's whatever you want, because you've mastered game.