Great responses here.
However I think a few misinterpreted my OP.
My underlying question was "Will letting a flakey girl know you won't tolerate her behaviour help shape her future behaviour?"
There does seem to be a paradox of 'not dealing with it, vs keeping her on the back-burner'. If a woman has cancelled plans numerous times, how much are you willing to sell yourself out for a cheap-fuck? IMO Tolerating this behaviour will only reinforce her flakiness with future men.
However I think a few misinterpreted my OP.
My underlying question was "Will letting a flakey girl know you won't tolerate her behaviour help shape her future behaviour?"
There does seem to be a paradox of 'not dealing with it, vs keeping her on the back-burner'. If a woman has cancelled plans numerous times, how much are you willing to sell yourself out for a cheap-fuck? IMO Tolerating this behaviour will only reinforce her flakiness with future men.
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