Quote: (04-10-2014 09:59 AM)kinjutsu Wrote:This might be difficult/impossible. she is poor.
Do not visit her.
You will regret it in a few years.
Start off by having her come visit you.
Quote: (04-10-2014 10:05 AM)heavy Wrote:
Yeah be casual, don't let her think you have any intention of meeting up with her, just mentioning it in convo that you're there (or going to be there).
you: convo blah
her: convo blah
you: I may be swinging by your town Tuesday
Depending on how she responds to that you have a really freakin good idea of whether she wants to meet up...
her: oh lemme know when you're here (sounds like you'd go)
her: oh yeah (not interested...but you could ask her where to find a good meal or something and keep working it)
If she doesn't go anywhere with it you're wasting your time. I second kinjutsu...if you must visit her
I've thought about s/thing like that. I might cool it off for a few weeks and then pay a little "surprise" visit. Just "randomly". Questions is just how to pull it off correctly.