[Blackhawk]

I'm meeting women at dances, getting only their first name, then on Facebook using the events page, going to the "old events" link at the bottom to go back to the event afterwards and pick them out from the "Yes attending" list a couple days later. (There's an unwritten rule about changing partners every dance, so I'm dancing with about 30 women a night --but since I'm always finding the next partner before the next song begins, I have no time to even ask their phone number)

So I'm trying to figure out how to modify Roosh's Text Communication script to Facebook messaging where you've already been at the same event together.

My thinking is I don't really need to say "Hey jenny it's roosh" because FB already is telling her the message is from me. And asking how she is could kinda look like I'm not even bothering to read her FB page. (Although most of their FB pages are locked up tight and there's nothing to read without friending them)

I'm not friending them, I'm just messaging them without becoming friends yet. Which feels alpha, but now I'm not sure.

I'm trying as the first message "Hi Jenny! It was fun to dance at <Event>. Do you want to hang out later in the week?" and otherwise following his text script --ie to the point and no extraneous crap.

Should I still try to make some sort of intro message exchange to get more buy in before I ask them for something later in the week? Does anyone suggest a FB script for where you've already met the girl and done a group event with them? Or should I be doing the friend/confirm friend thing first as a way of getting buy in from them and putting my privacy settings to some magic setting so I don't have them seeing who else I'm talking with at the same time?

Made the mistake of including an emoticon in one FB message and then read Roosh's comments about leaving emoticons out. Roosh is right. FB takes all emoticons and changes them to ugly yellow pictures that make your message look gay.