I'm not taking it the wrong way, bro. I wouldn't have posted if I didn't want to learn something and have no problem admitting that I fucked up this. It's almost like a case study...
Not afraid. I just knew better than to dive head first without checking to see how deep the water was. I was treating it like a social circle situation (most of the people were cool and some of us hung out outside of class). At the time (and this is where the opportunity was missed) I thought it would be fine to wait a bit and try to hang out with just the two of us, because she was giving me some lukewarm attraction but also not just throwing herself at me yet. I obviously missed the window at some point. My question is: When would you have escalated this situation?
Trying to get it in with ex gf. We had broken up 2.5 weeks before and she texted me earlier that afternoon.
No doubt. Should have taken a risk here and opened my mouth. What would you have said? How would you have handled it?
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Missed opportunity #1 - You waited until the end of the semester because you were afraid of the consequences.
Not afraid. I just knew better than to dive head first without checking to see how deep the water was. I was treating it like a social circle situation (most of the people were cool and some of us hung out outside of class). At the time (and this is where the opportunity was missed) I thought it would be fine to wait a bit and try to hang out with just the two of us, because she was giving me some lukewarm attraction but also not just throwing herself at me yet. I obviously missed the window at some point. My question is: When would you have escalated this situation?
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Missed opportunity #2 - "Ill call you later." Then, you wait two days, why?
Trying to get it in with ex gf. We had broken up 2.5 weeks before and she texted me earlier that afternoon.
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Missed opportunity #3 - You had a perfect shot at reigniting something with the girl and you chose not to.
No doubt. Should have taken a risk here and opened my mouth. What would you have said? How would you have handled it?