Don't call me sir. I work for a living and I am a mere rookie compared to most on here.
It just worked that I happened to have been blessed with a gift for being able to adapt myself to a particular situation and group. Being well rounded (especially when it comes to religion or other culturally significant factors) tends to be very useful. One of the best things I ever did was read all of the world's significant primary religious texts while I was in high school figuring that if I was going to live in this world, I should at least try to see why people took the approaches to things that they do. This allowed me to take that and use it when dealing with folks who base their world view off of such materials. In the case of Lynn (the pastor's daughter), I ended up using my decent knowledge of Christian doctrine to get my foot in the door with her father whom I honestly think saw me as a potential future colleague even though I have am an agnostic on my best days (and an agnostic Jew at that). So once she was hearing good things from her dad about me, I just slowly moved in and let her think what she would about me while slowly bringing her around to my view of sexuality.
The best way to think of it is as a very slow version of kino game and a very small scale application of some of the basic tenets of propaganda. If you understand the underlying currents of a culture and the inherent forces that drive human behavior, you can tap into them to get what you want. A good, albeit evil, example of this is how the Nazi propaganda latched on to the undercurrent of anti-Semitism that had ebbed and swelled repeatedly in Europe for over a thousand years. It wasn't that everyone one day woke up and said "Hey, you know lets slaughter this people because this greasy little douchebag with a Chaplin mustache says we should". There was a slow progress from a well-established dislike of a particular minority group to open persecution and finally to outright slaughter.
Now pardon invoking "Godwin's game" here but you can do something similar with a girl who is resistant to the idea of sex on religious or cultural grounds. No, I don't mean take her out and put one in the back of her head while she kneels before a ditch or to retrofit your bathroom with a special showerhead that dispenses insecticide. Rather you simply tap into her innate biological drive to procreate and slowly move her way of thinking about it into a way that fits into her religious beliefs. You can go from a "don't touch me" to kissing and groping to fingering to oral sex and to the final solution of the virginity question. It takes a lot of work and you need to really understand what you are dealing with but if you're into banging virgins (personally, it's not my thing although I won't turn down the chance if it presents itself) this sort of game can serve you well.
It just worked that I happened to have been blessed with a gift for being able to adapt myself to a particular situation and group. Being well rounded (especially when it comes to religion or other culturally significant factors) tends to be very useful. One of the best things I ever did was read all of the world's significant primary religious texts while I was in high school figuring that if I was going to live in this world, I should at least try to see why people took the approaches to things that they do. This allowed me to take that and use it when dealing with folks who base their world view off of such materials. In the case of Lynn (the pastor's daughter), I ended up using my decent knowledge of Christian doctrine to get my foot in the door with her father whom I honestly think saw me as a potential future colleague even though I have am an agnostic on my best days (and an agnostic Jew at that). So once she was hearing good things from her dad about me, I just slowly moved in and let her think what she would about me while slowly bringing her around to my view of sexuality.
The best way to think of it is as a very slow version of kino game and a very small scale application of some of the basic tenets of propaganda. If you understand the underlying currents of a culture and the inherent forces that drive human behavior, you can tap into them to get what you want. A good, albeit evil, example of this is how the Nazi propaganda latched on to the undercurrent of anti-Semitism that had ebbed and swelled repeatedly in Europe for over a thousand years. It wasn't that everyone one day woke up and said "Hey, you know lets slaughter this people because this greasy little douchebag with a Chaplin mustache says we should". There was a slow progress from a well-established dislike of a particular minority group to open persecution and finally to outright slaughter.
Now pardon invoking "Godwin's game" here but you can do something similar with a girl who is resistant to the idea of sex on religious or cultural grounds. No, I don't mean take her out and put one in the back of her head while she kneels before a ditch or to retrofit your bathroom with a special showerhead that dispenses insecticide. Rather you simply tap into her innate biological drive to procreate and slowly move her way of thinking about it into a way that fits into her religious beliefs. You can go from a "don't touch me" to kissing and groping to fingering to oral sex and to the final solution of the virginity question. It takes a lot of work and you need to really understand what you are dealing with but if you're into banging virgins (personally, it's not my thing although I won't turn down the chance if it presents itself) this sort of game can serve you well.