Quote: (12-31-2013 09:59 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:
Ryan, what do you mean exactly? What do you feel is missing?
No need to answer if you don't feel like it. But you could be talking about a number of different things.
I think I heard it best in a Patrice O'Neal bit (and I don't mean to always sound like a Patrice fan-boy). He talked about how women don't know how to tap into a man's desire. The girls I usually end up sleeping with don't tap into my desire. They put up the token "I'm not that kind of girl, blah blah" but it's like I've slept with the same vagina with dozens of different faces.
I often wonder if I have a broken attachment mechanism. Not really sure.
Funny thing is, the girls who I think I *may* have been able to get there with, are always the ones that "got away". That I wasn't able to obtain, for one reason or another (bad game, logistics, boyfriend, etc). Not sure if that's correlation or causation.