Quote: (05-28-2011 04:59 PM)basilransom Wrote:
Well the prime inspiration for this was I told a girl "I'm losing interest..." over text, one I met online. She called me the next day to set something up, and we eventually met up, although she was insane.
The radio silence maneuver only works if you've made a strong enough connection. It's like being aloof and indifferent vs. being an outright asshole - both have their uses.
I use a combination technique of: brief radio silence and the "misdirected text." Depending on the situation, I'll fall off for 5-10 days, and then send something that DHV or is a hilarious non-sequitur that was clearly not intended for her.
Works fairly well at reinvigorating wilting prospects.