Quote: (12-21-2013 12:41 AM)Mumbojumbo Wrote:
Possibly a rookie mistake but my night game isn't that great. I was hoping you can tell me what you'd have done.
We meet, talk, make out all in under one hour. We spend time on the dance floor - my lips begin to hurt from the kissing. I tell her to go to my place which is nearby for a another drink since it's 'too expensive'.
She says she's not coming. I asks where her place is - she says I'm not invited. I get the digits and mark the girl done but here's the surprising part. She now tells me that her mom is coming tomorrow, so we only have time tonight. She pays her tab - I wait to tell her goodbye. But she re-engages and suddenly does not want to go anymore. She waits for me to say goodbye. Now she tells me she gets a taxi nearby and I let her go.
I feel like her wish of not coming to my place was just ASD and I could have done more - but what? I did not like to leave the club yet since there were a number of hotties still around. How could I have steered her with plausible deniability to my hotel?
"She says she's not coming." This would have been a good opportunity to say "OK," walk away and start dancing with/gaming another girl. Esp if there were hotties still around.
"Where's your place" was a good bold line in response, but sounds like maybe she wasn't feeling the ONS at all and nothing was going to get her out of there with you. Sometimes girls just dance and make out with guys for fun and validation and don't have any intention of banging that night.