Never saw it as an issue if she refuses. Usually just say "no problem I'll smoke yours" and move on to something else. I smoke casually and don't come off as a stoner so it's easy to play off. Since it's no big deal to me and common as hell I just check her for being weird and uptight if she dwells on it. Imo it's just a shit test if that happens.
and yeah weed can be a game killer for me. I get lazy and introverted if I smoke too much or too often. Wake and baking is awful. Also only times I pop early are when I'm super blazed. It can be great for slow drawn out lazy gf sex if that's your thing. Being a pothead was pretty much my game in high school though and it worked pretty well. Mixed bag like anything.
and yeah weed can be a game killer for me. I get lazy and introverted if I smoke too much or too often. Wake and baking is awful. Also only times I pop early are when I'm super blazed. It can be great for slow drawn out lazy gf sex if that's your thing. Being a pothead was pretty much my game in high school though and it worked pretty well. Mixed bag like anything.