Quote: (12-08-2013 10:55 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:
Your mind makes associations between things. Crying during sex means she had a bad experience during sex somewhere down the line that she can't get over ...ie sexual abuse. She probably desperately wants to enjoy the act of sex but her mind keeps bringing her back to that bad place.
Girls like this end up getting really drunk or high on coke before sex as a way to control their feelings and try to enjoy sex. They're attaching the good feeling of drugs with the act of sex. It's self-medicating. Get it?
It's not something you can help her with. It's futile to even try. It'll tear you apart. She needs a therapist to walk her through it and help her break the association. It could be a life long journey for her.
you should probably qualify statements like these like, "in my experience" or something like that because i can tell you, in my experience your analysis is far from complete.
I like it when the girls cry, to me, it means that i'm tapping deep into their souls and giving them that primal energy.
I've had all kinds of different girls cry during sex - some crazy, some totally normal and some that have had bad things happen in the past - but by and large, they have cried during sex with me for one of two reasons:
1) i was hurting them really badly and of course they are going to cry, flogging, whipping, whatever
or, and at times in tandem with:
2) they loved me so much but knew that I wasn't ever going to give them the commitment that they wanted
when they start crying i egg them on..cry harder..cry more...cry for me!