@thegerman
You have at least seven good reasons to start the process of moving on. As I've told other guys on this board before: if you gone as far as creating an account on a board like this to just to ask for advice on whether to stay with your girlfriend, your decision has been made.
Reasons You Should Leave this Girl ASAP
Reason #1: Seeking Advice
First things first: just opening your mouth (or your computer, in this case) about something like this is sign that you can't contain your frustrations and doubts anymore. It likely means you've been harboring these feelings for a long-time--a tell-tale sign.
Reason #2: You're Hungry
Reason #3: You Have the Potential for Better and You Know It
Reason #4: You're Bored to Tears with this Girl
Reason #5: You're Tired of Exhausting Your Finite Resources on Her
Reason #6: You Don't Want to Stress Over Creeping
Reason #7: You're Not As Attracted to Her As You Used to Be and You're Trying to Argue with Your Softened Boner
You have at least seven good reasons to start the process of moving on. As I've told other guys on this board before: if you gone as far as creating an account on a board like this to just to ask for advice on whether to stay with your girlfriend, your decision has been made.
Reasons You Should Leave this Girl ASAP
Reason #1: Seeking Advice
First things first: just opening your mouth (or your computer, in this case) about something like this is sign that you can't contain your frustrations and doubts anymore. It likely means you've been harboring these feelings for a long-time--a tell-tale sign.
Reason #2: You're Hungry
Quote: (05-22-2011 12:25 PM)thegerman Wrote:
I am 22 and my gf is the only woman i've slept with...
Reason #3: You Have the Potential for Better and You Know It
Quote: (05-22-2011 12:25 PM)thegerman Wrote:
i'm not bad looking and not a huge fool with girls
Reason #4: You're Bored to Tears with this Girl
Quote: (05-22-2011 12:25 PM)thegerman Wrote:
i'm realising that i'm getting somewhat bored in the relationship, but i still feel love for my girl.
Reason #5: You're Tired of Exhausting Your Finite Resources on Her
Quote: (05-22-2011 12:25 PM)thegerman Wrote:
But lately i don't really want to invest much more time/money in her when i'd rather be out in bars etc..
Reason #6: You Don't Want to Stress Over Creeping
Quote: (05-22-2011 12:25 PM)thegerman Wrote:
I have no moral issues with having affairs but i see her basically every day and she phones me a lot. Besides, what little time I have left from my studying she wants me to spend with her.
Reason #7: You're Not As Attracted to Her As You Used to Be and You're Trying to Argue with Your Softened Boner
Quote: (05-22-2011 12:25 PM)thegerman Wrote:
she's maybe a 6/7, sweet natured, although has put on a little weight over course of time