Your mind makes associations between things. Crying during sex means she had a bad experience during sex somewhere down the line that she can't get over ...ie sexual abuse. She probably desperately wants to enjoy the act of sex but her mind keeps bringing her back to that bad place.
Girls like this end up getting really drunk or high on coke before sex as a way to control their feelings and try to enjoy sex. They're attaching the good feeling of drugs with the act of sex. It's self-medicating. Get it?
It's not something you can help her with. It's futile to even try. It'll tear you apart. She needs a therapist to walk her through it and help her break the association. It could be a life long journey for her.
Girls like this end up getting really drunk or high on coke before sex as a way to control their feelings and try to enjoy sex. They're attaching the good feeling of drugs with the act of sex. It's self-medicating. Get it?
It's not something you can help her with. It's futile to even try. It'll tear you apart. She needs a therapist to walk her through it and help her break the association. It could be a life long journey for her.
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