This is not suprising at all.
I have had countless girls flake on me before a first date, but NEVER have I lost a girl after the first date.
It is crucial that you connect with her, you make her invest, you escalate smoothly, set the dating frame and kiss her.
A first date without a makeout is bound to end in a flake. Why would she flake if she sees you as a potential boyfriend?
Fact is, you didn't make that happen. And, if all you wanted was a quick-sex frame, you should have tried to close the same night, because that frame won't bring you a second date.
I have had countless girls flake on me before a first date, but NEVER have I lost a girl after the first date.
It is crucial that you connect with her, you make her invest, you escalate smoothly, set the dating frame and kiss her.
A first date without a makeout is bound to end in a flake. Why would she flake if she sees you as a potential boyfriend?
Fact is, you didn't make that happen. And, if all you wanted was a quick-sex frame, you should have tried to close the same night, because that frame won't bring you a second date.