Quote: (04-29-2011 09:15 AM)amistod Wrote:
If you had the "perfect girl" how far could you excuse weight?
She weighs in at almost 200 lbs and has the frame of a 135 lb girl.
I am white/blonde/blue, 28, 237 lbs (goal weight is 220)
You young guys want to plan everything instead of accepting the uncertainty of life and taking things as they come. Also, there is too much denial in your post.
You have already been married and don't need to get married again for another five or ten years, if ever. If you don't want kids then why get married at all? Men in their thirties have perfect marriage opportunities.
You have only know this girl for one year, and probably haven't even lived together! Your undergrad near-virgin girlfriend is definitely too young and immature to get married. See how perfect your relationship is once she graduates and gets a life.
A goal weight of 220 might be fine if you are 6'5".