Merenguero:
Since you seem to know the law, let me ask you this:
1. If society, and most women expect (because of society's expectations) you to sign paternity at child birth
2. You won't be able to get your DNA test back till a day or two later, if you do one behind the mother's back
How do most men get around that problem? For most men, not signing paternity at child birth and waiting on DNA test to get back just isn't an option, unless they want to put a serious dent in the relationship for a very long time.
Do you have any practical advice for something like this? Something that doesn't include "Don't sign it and explain to the wife ..." or "be alpha"?
Since you seem to know the law, let me ask you this:
1. If society, and most women expect (because of society's expectations) you to sign paternity at child birth
2. You won't be able to get your DNA test back till a day or two later, if you do one behind the mother's back
How do most men get around that problem? For most men, not signing paternity at child birth and waiting on DNA test to get back just isn't an option, unless they want to put a serious dent in the relationship for a very long time.
Do you have any practical advice for something like this? Something that doesn't include "Don't sign it and explain to the wife ..." or "be alpha"?