Get an apt in NYC.
Get an apt there for the weekdays and if you want to go to NJ for the weekends keep your place there. It's not like you're going to be able to hang out with your family/friends during the weekdays anyway with that commute. Pretty much wake -> work -> eat -> sleep.
3 hours a day is 15 hours a week, damn that's a lotta time sitting on a train.
Get an apt there for the weekdays and if you want to go to NJ for the weekends keep your place there. It's not like you're going to be able to hang out with your family/friends during the weekdays anyway with that commute. Pretty much wake -> work -> eat -> sleep.
3 hours a day is 15 hours a week, damn that's a lotta time sitting on a train.