[urbrock]

(09-04-2013 02:17 AM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

(09-03-2013 04:34 PM)urbrock Wrote:  

OK this is messed up. Lately I've been pulling hotter and hotter chicks but it seems like the hotter the girl the worse my performance anxiety, which is non existent with 6s, 7s and 8s.... Recently I took home two what I would describe as perfect 10s.... The first one I simply couldn't maintain an erection for and didn't sleep with. The second one I got it up but barely the first time and then today I saw her again and couldn't perform at all. She seeemed cool about it but this is really messing with my head. It seems ironic to me that the hotter the girl the harder it is to perform, but alas, this seems to be the case for me. Obviously this is some sort of mental thing as with most girls I'm fine, but any tips or techniques on how to address this. I jokingly suggested to the girls today that she's too hot for me, but wtf?! I finally start pulling the girls of my dreams and this?? Anybody else have something like this?

Damn man, this post really hit home, I hate to admit it, because it's embarassing, but I've struggled with this issue too at times.

My last pull from the bars about 3 weeks ago was a hot ass 20 year old blonde girl that got into the bar with a fake ID. Banging body, fat round booty, big titties, pretty much gamed her perfectly. Got her back to my house, shaved pristine tight pussy, tongue ring, pierced nipples, I hit the jackpot, except for one big little problem. Performance anxiety.

For me it's some weird level of anxiety usually mixed with whiskey dick, I was going to make a post about "whiskey dick", but I fear that my body is pretty sensitive to alcohol, and I have had many issues with drinking too much and getting whiskey dick in the past. Couple that with the anxiety of "first time jitters" and it can be a real boner killer.

So to make a long story short, this blonde was hotter than the usual that I've been pulling this past year, you'd think my dick would be rock hard for her, but nope. In my defense she was a real "dead fish" though and wasn't touching my cock at all and refused to suck it, even though she looked like a major kinky freak with the tongue ring and pierced nips. I ended up fingering her, sucking her tits, and munching the puss, but couldn't get hard.

Strangely enough I've taken home girls that are sixes and much less attractive, and gotten instantly hard for them and fucked the shit out of them for an hour straight. It's got to be linked with anxiety. What's even more odd though is that in the moment I am mentally aroused and not feeling conciously nervous, but on some deeper subconcious level I must have anxiety and psyche myself out.

I guess they say "misery loves company" so I got to say I feel a little bit better reading another guys report about this. I am noticing a trend between the correlation of how hot a girl is and how much performance anxiety I get.

Really the solution is to pull more hot girls and get used to pulling hot girls, and get used to fucking the shit out of hot girls so you will be desensitized to them. Oh yeah I also hate to admit that I usually cum way quicker the hotter they are, but that's probably true of all guys.

Yes, this is exactly what happens to me. I don't feel like I'm having performance anxiety, but something happens somewhere deep inside me that causes me to not perform as well with super hot girls.... and then when I notice this happening I start focusing on it and then I really do get anxious.... It's true that often times really hot girls aren't quite as fun in bed but i think it's more than that for me. I mean with most girls just them being naked and willing is enough for me!

I think I'm just going to keep a little levitra on hand for 9s and up and use that the first couple times.... this shit is not going to happen again!