[Abe Lincoln]

(06-01-2013 12:05 AM)Mage Wrote:  



First of all we all know that the real problem of her currentt fiancee is not so much the lack of money, but lack of charisma and being too nice.

Second, it is not looking for a rich man that is amoral. It is using and then dumping nice betas like this fiencee, before that, that is amoral.

Third, we really need to know the real beauty level of this girl. Unless she is exceptionally beautyful (a 9/10) she is better with the faithful poorer niceguy, because the rich guy will easily be able to upgrade her to something hotter. We also need to know her smoking and eating habits to know if she is likely to hit the wall soon or not. Also I can bet she is not having a rich beta in her mind, but a rich alfa - which means that most likely this girl is overestimating herself, like most women in west who are unable to ever feel happy because they think they deserve better then they actually do.

I hear you on this one. Lack of charisma and being too nice is probably the real problem. No doubt these traits make him less likely to be rich too! Hypergamy can be bad and have a negative effect if girls overestimate their value BUT if a girl is truly hot and as smart as her prospect, why shouldn't she ditch a beta provider? It's crass like an athlete ditching his loyal team to win a championship but it's not wrong.

I agree that this girl is most likely overestimating herself and that most women in the west won't happy because they think they deserve better than they do.