as mystery says, the first kiss is for comfort. you shouldn't get her all turned anywhere that's not your bedroom, or at least inside your apartment. i know there are a million exceptions, but to me this is a good rule of thumb. i have screwed up several seduction attempts by getting her all turned on in the bar, or even the foyer of my building, and then having her LMR-ASD kick in, and then she wouldn't go upstairs.
so now, i only do light kissing until i actually get her on my bed.
so now, i only do light kissing until i actually get her on my bed.