Quote: (02-25-2011 07:34 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:
I am 30+ and married. Typically I do not mention it when doing bars/clubs, and if asked directly, give a vague answer like "it is complicated". Tried to acknowledge it, but in my practice it made things worse - for each female which is turned on by that idea there were at least five which were turned off, so the overall result was negative. It also gives cockblockers an additional powerful excuse to cockblock you not only from their friend, but also from others as well.
However my experience may not be completely relevant to your case. First, I do not wear wedding ring (I don't even have one). Second I only target those who look like a potential ONS, and skip on everyone else as I don't do dates or collect phone numbers. If your goals are different, it may work for you better, but you'll only learn by practice.
Right on Oldnemesis..................I totally agree that being married hurts rather helps the game unless you are trying to game girls attracted to married guys. .............
@ Chainring : Is there s streak of freak in girls attracted to marrried Guys that I don't know ? Why are ou trying to go after these girls ?
@ Oldnemesis : While we are at the topic , how can I Improve my game,I am married +................ I used to tell the girls that I am separated , that didn't work well, Now I either don't tell them any thing at all and give vague answers about my relationships etc......like I have 3 wifes , 4 girlfriends and have 10 kids etc.....I think it's important to undersatnd that one shouldn't share any kind of personal Info with potential targets...
Oldnemesis it's good to know that you work on ONS model, This is exactly what my game has evolved to after wasted hours on getting numbers, going on dates etc , I would appreciate your input........... on what angles to play in my situation ?
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