Here's the thing that I've noticed about lasting..
There's always an initial build-up of anxiety in most sexual encounters. This is good, because it makes sex hot- the sense of vulnerability.
Once you get over this hump, you can go for a while and things just feel normal.
Some tricks to get over the hump:
Don't fuck her fast. Go as slow as you need to go in order to hold your load. Then, slowly build up speed and intensity and make sure you are comfortable with it.
DO NOT let her control the tempo. It's got to be on your terms. Ignore her pleas to go faster etc. That can come later.
Your main focus should be on relaxing into it.
Then you get your groove and you have more control.
There's always an initial build-up of anxiety in most sexual encounters. This is good, because it makes sex hot- the sense of vulnerability.
Once you get over this hump, you can go for a while and things just feel normal.
Some tricks to get over the hump:
Don't fuck her fast. Go as slow as you need to go in order to hold your load. Then, slowly build up speed and intensity and make sure you are comfortable with it.
DO NOT let her control the tempo. It's got to be on your terms. Ignore her pleas to go faster etc. That can come later.
Your main focus should be on relaxing into it.
Then you get your groove and you have more control.