[Menace]

Basically there is not enough information to figure out what's going on inside his head, so there is a lot of projecting going on. It sounds like 1) he was annoyed with her being so late and 2) his dick was just not responsive for whatever reason, so he kind of shut down. Can't say the girl was particularly bad. This was kind of his to lose, assuming he was attracted to her. She was doing most of the tacking (that is a good thing), and she specified Asian guy. Who knows. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.