I live in W-Europe and I have a problem. I have a girlfriend in E-Europe and sometimes I fly there to spend some time together.
Lately she start to ask question like "are we ever be able to live together?", "cant I come there to live with you", "do you like me, why don't we live together then?", "don't you want children?", "whats your perfect wife like?"...![[Image: undecided.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/undecided.gif)
I already told her that I don't want children. I told her that I just like her but I don't want a "real" relationship. I told her that she may fuck other guys and I wont judge her for that (credits: Johnny Soporno), and frankly I don't give a fuck if she does this yes or no. I only asked her to do it safe since I'm doing her without condom. She tells me I'm the only guy she has sex with the last years and that I'm the only guy she has been really attracted to in her whole life. I told her to find another guy to do this because with me it's not going to happen.
Thing is ... I really like this girl and she is the perfect mother/girlfriend if I ever would want a normal life, but I just don't want to give up my bachelor lifestyle. I like flirting with other chicks, fucking other girls, living on my own in my own place, flying to other places to party and fuck... I'm sure that I don't want kids in the next 10-15years. I really hope she will come up one day with "I found this guy and I want to marry him" since she will be happy then... but she keeps projecting her dreams onto me and she keeps pursuing me. I know there are some other guys in her country who are pursuing her but she says she has chosen me. What to do what to do?...![[Image: sad.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/new/sad.gif)
Bottomline: I don't want to "break up" with her AND I don't want to hurt her feelings. She will hit the wall in a few years and I honestly want her to be happy after that. How would you guys do this? How to avoid her "shittests"? All advice is welcome.
Lately she start to ask question like "are we ever be able to live together?", "cant I come there to live with you", "do you like me, why don't we live together then?", "don't you want children?", "whats your perfect wife like?"...
I already told her that I don't want children. I told her that I just like her but I don't want a "real" relationship. I told her that she may fuck other guys and I wont judge her for that (credits: Johnny Soporno), and frankly I don't give a fuck if she does this yes or no. I only asked her to do it safe since I'm doing her without condom. She tells me I'm the only guy she has sex with the last years and that I'm the only guy she has been really attracted to in her whole life. I told her to find another guy to do this because with me it's not going to happen.
Thing is ... I really like this girl and she is the perfect mother/girlfriend if I ever would want a normal life, but I just don't want to give up my bachelor lifestyle. I like flirting with other chicks, fucking other girls, living on my own in my own place, flying to other places to party and fuck... I'm sure that I don't want kids in the next 10-15years. I really hope she will come up one day with "I found this guy and I want to marry him" since she will be happy then... but she keeps projecting her dreams onto me and she keeps pursuing me. I know there are some other guys in her country who are pursuing her but she says she has chosen me. What to do what to do?...
Bottomline: I don't want to "break up" with her AND I don't want to hurt her feelings. She will hit the wall in a few years and I honestly want her to be happy after that. How would you guys do this? How to avoid her "shittests"? All advice is welcome.