This night was a huge failure!
You made 0 connections, got 0 numbers, 0 make outs, 0 bangs! You missed many approaches that you should have made.
This night was a huge success!
You took the most important step, which is the first step. You faced your fears and survived. You felt empowered by telling girls how you really feel. You got more comfortable. You learned a few valuable lessons. You will be better next time. You likely gained some motivation from this.
Which one describes your feelings?
Pick the perspective that serves you best. Pick that attitude that helps you the most.
You know which one I would choose. But, you have to choose for yourself.
And, remember, this game shit is all one big mind game. You have to control your own mind! What you believe becomes real (in your mind).
So, now I want to ask you...
Was this night a failure or success???
Its not up to us, its up to you! You make it a success or failure based on your reaction to it.
You made 0 connections, got 0 numbers, 0 make outs, 0 bangs! You missed many approaches that you should have made.
This night was a huge success!
You took the most important step, which is the first step. You faced your fears and survived. You felt empowered by telling girls how you really feel. You got more comfortable. You learned a few valuable lessons. You will be better next time. You likely gained some motivation from this.
Which one describes your feelings?
Pick the perspective that serves you best. Pick that attitude that helps you the most.
You know which one I would choose. But, you have to choose for yourself.
And, remember, this game shit is all one big mind game. You have to control your own mind! What you believe becomes real (in your mind).
So, now I want to ask you...
Was this night a failure or success???
Its not up to us, its up to you! You make it a success or failure based on your reaction to it.